First Marriage, then love: wife, never divorce

Lin Yuxin was a bystander to the marriage between Che ruyu and Jin Zhengnan. As the saying goes, a bystander sees everything clearly. Therefore, after the roast meat was served, she began to persuade Ru Yu while chewing on the roast meat.

“Ru Yu, how can you casually say that you want a divorce How can you casually say that you want to give up on a marriage I remember you once said that in this life, other than Jin Zhengnan, you won’t fall in love with a second man. However, when this question came out, the first thing you thought of was not how to solve the problem, but to retreat like an ostrich and surrender.”

At this point, Lin Yuxin stopped and looked straight at ru Yu Then she asked in a low voice, “Ru Yu, do you think that you really loved Jin Zhengnan before? If it was true love, why didn’t you work hard to fight for him? You actually want to divorce him. Aren’t you giving him up to someone else? ”

“fight for him? ” Ru Yu couldn’t help but smile bitterly She said faintly, “how do I fight for him? ” Zhu Deyong said that when a third party appeared in a marriage, a stupid woman would solve the woman, and a smart woman would solve the man. And I definitely can’t be that stupid woman and directly solve Lan Ruoshui. At the same time, I can’t be a smart woman because I can’t handle that man at all.”

Lin Yuxin frowned when she heard her words. She reached out and patted the back of her hand. “Ru Yu, you don’t have to be so pessimistic. Actually, if you want to get rid of those two people, it’s basically… ”

“I only want to handle my own matters, ” ru Yu quickly corrected her. “I’m just an ordinary painter now, leading an ordinary life. My marriage with Jin Zhengnan is just like the marriages of ordinary families in the world. There’s a mistress. I can’t tolerate the existence of a mistress like other wives. Of course, he won’t give me the chance to tolerate it. So, apart from divorcing him, actually… “… there’s no other way.”

“Okay, so now… you don’t love him at all? ” Lin Yuxin said carefully. She had a feeling that ru Yu didn’t actually put Jin Zhengnan down.

Ru Yu rolled her eyes at her. She didn’t want to waste time with her, so she took her chopsticks to get some barbecue meat. She hadn’t eaten anything for a day and a night, and now she could swallow a whole cow.

“since you don’t love him, why do you still let them go so easily? ” Lin Yuxin rolled her eyes at her. “Don’t you know that your divorce with Jin Zhengnan is actually helping him and Lan Ruoshui? ”

“So what if I don’t help them? Do you want me to hold onto a marriage contract for the rest of my life? ” Ru Yu shook her head and sighed softly. “Yu Xin, you know that this is not my style. Although I don’t want to help others, I also don’t want to feel wronged. ”

“I know that. No one wants to feel wronged. ” Lin Yuxin continued, “but, ru Yu, you have known him for four years and married him for three years. You married him when he was in the most difficult time. You silently supported him and helped him behind his back. He doesn’t know how many things you have done for him. Now that he has succeeded in his career, you actually want to separate from him and push him to that mistress. Is your brain kicked by a donkey? ” Or are you really too great?”

“I definitely didn’t get kicked in the head by a donkey, and I’m not that great. ” Ru Yu picked up a piece of meat with her chopsticks and put it into her mouth. “However, you also know that I have my own pride and self-respect. ”